Holding Peace by Withholding Words

Scripture:
He who has knowledge spares his words,
And a man of understanding is of a calm spirit.
Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace;
When he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive.
Proverbs 17:27-28

Observation: The nature of this proverb is clear, that speaking foolishly is a sign of a fool, and therefore holding your tongue allows others to perceive you as wise. When a person doesn't speak, the assumption is that he is perceptive, observing, contemplative. In fact, a wise person uses words sparingly, and remains calm because he understands the situation.

Application: Yesterday, I talked to my wife the debates on social media about schools reopening. Some are against it, some are for it, and both sides are becoming louder, bolder, and more militant in their declarations that their opinions are the only logical possibilities and the other side are ... reckless and cruel idiots. Then last night I saw a video about how arguments occur on the internet and how they foster division between two sides in a manner similar to a virus. I almost posted the video on social media ... but didn't.

I must hold my peace in the matters - shut my digital lips - not because I don't have an opinion in the matter, but because my words would be counted foolish to some. When spoken, my words become a way to division, and a point of contention no matter what I say, just as I have seen other's posts become a source for a thread of arguments.

However, I see the Lord's wisdom in another way here as well. A wise man who spares his words and simply observes in understanding ... can be of calm spirit. Engaging in debates raises anger, and anger raises responses, contention, defense, and conflict. Remaining silent gives me space to also remain calm, peaceful, joyful, and loving.

And, if I am a fool, at least I don't have to open my mouth and prove that fact to others.

Prayer: Lord, your wisdom is my food. May I walk with you on your path this day, with a clear understanding that your path is nowhere near the arguments of worldly matters covered in the daily news. Thank you. Amen.