Observation: This is wise advice about what is spoken. A good man who gives good advice councils others with helpful words and thoughts. However, the wicked give advice designed to stir conflict.
Application: I have been praying in concern for the young men of my church recently. I am now one of the older members of the church, and we have many, many younger men who have recently come to faith. They are very good men, eager to discuss their faith, to learn more and more about Jesus, and to serve in the church. That has been wonderful! It is such a blessing to see others step into lead positions and own responsibility for the Lord's house.
However, I know the "degree of difficulty" that comes with our church. I know the attacks of the enemy that will come. And I am concerned that, when such attacks come, these men may not be prepared. I have been considering how I may advise them in order to prepare them ... first, if I should, and second, what I should say.
Therefore, Proverbs has shown me today that I should be prepared to give them wise advice, and to speak that advice in a manner that is helpful. I wish to strengthen them with courage and honor, not create a heart of fear or trepidation. And I wish to do it in a manner that demonstrates they are valued as new leaders and strong brothers. The words must be wise and helpful, and not create any rebellion with 'the world'.
Prayer: Lord, may you be with the men on my heart, this day and every day. Keep them under your protective wing, and in your blessing. Give them strong lives of faith. As you guide me, I am willing to advise and serve them, as one who has seen your mighty hand. I seek your Spirit and word in this. Amen.