Blessing with Words Fitly Spoken

Scripture:
A word fitly spoken
is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.
Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold
is a wise rebuke to a listening ear.
Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest
are faithful messengers to those who send them;
they refresh the spirit of their masters.
Proverbs 25:11-13

Observation: For three verses, the proverbs tell of the value of the spoken word. True words, wise rebukes, and accurately reported news carry the worth of beautiful riches, personal adornments, and life-giving refreshment. While the value is for the receiver of the words, the charge is upon others to deliver good words ... to give a word "fitly spoken", or a wise rebuke, or a faithful message.

Application: This is a double-edged lesson for me. I have been greatly harmed by the words of others, however I am far too casual in my harsh words to others.

I desire to love others, so I should consider how I may give them ... words fitly spoken. The care for others is first and foremost in our words, which can harm or can bless, and the blessing of words comes in their accuracy, their truth, their wisdom, and their timeliness.

I sincerely wish I could give others better words than I often do.

Prayer: Lord, my tongue is a terrible thing, I know. I say many things that harm others. Please forgive my careless words, and help me to love others through the thoughtful use of truthful, honest, caring words. Amen.