Acting Wisely Toward Others

Scripture: When Hiram heard Solomon’s words, he greatly rejoiced and said, "May the Lord be praised today! He has given David a wise son to be over this great people!" 1 Kings 5:7

Observation: Solomon earns this praise from Hiram over a message that simply has two points - he is going to build a temple to God, and so send him cedar. Why would this make Solomon wise?

First, because he has chosen to honor God. His wisdom is evident in his dedication to the Lord, and in his decision to in fact carry out the instruction given to him by God through David to create the house where God my again live with the people. Second, Solomon treats Hiram as a peer. He has the authority to place Hiram under his authority and command obedience. He instead offers a deal to leverage Hiram's expertise, send his own labor to help, and to pay for the cedar.

Solomon could treat Hiram as a weaker subject to be ordered into action. Instead, he treats Hiram as a person of value, with both skills and needs, and seeks to work with him.

Application: This is a sign of Godly love ... to treat others with value. When I can command others, it is better to ask. When I can order work to be done, it is better to work together. When I can take, it is better to purchase. When I can win a conflict, it is better to win a friend.

Prayer: Lord, may I continue to find ways to love others today in a wise manner. I do not seek to wield authority, but rather to wield your love and kindness. Amen.