Busybodies Defined

Scripture: We hear that some among you are idle and disruptive. They are not busy; they are busybodies. Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the food they eat. 2 Thessalonians 3:11-12

Observation: In the church, Paul has repeatedly taught that the people are to love and care about one another, just like Jesus taught. However, Paul says this is not the kind of people who are to be in the church: Those who receive that care without contributing back into the society of believers.

Everyone has gifts, and while some may receive from others, they too are to give to others. anyone who is "not busy" doing something for the church, is worse than just a non-contributor - they are a disruptive busybody.

Application: This may not sound like a loving thing to say, but there are people who attend the church because they want people to take care of them. They do not serve, they do not support, they do not tithe. They instead get free meals, attend classes, receive counseling, ask for prayer, seek handouts. They are often also the ones who ... complain about the music, don't like the sermons, nit pick small issues.

For someone who is doing these things, there are only two explanations:

1) They aren't actually a believer ... which is great that they are therefore at church seeking Jesus! They must be loved, cared for, and engaged to show them Jesus.

2) They are idle, disruptive busybodies. Paul says, "Take special note of anyone who does not obey our instruction in this letter. Do not associate with them, in order that they may feel ashamed. Yet do not regard them as an enemy, but warn them as you would a fellow believer." (2 Thessalonians 3:14-15)

In other words, someone who "takes" from the church is either a non-believer, or in need of correction. BOTH must be treated with love - not anger as one would an enemy. But the former needs the love of Jesus, the latter needs the correction of Jesus.

Prayer: Lord, in the church it is easy to get angry at those who "take". Please forgive me for when I have done that. At the same time, please also give me the courage to correct believers who suck the resources of your church (especially the staff). May I do so gently and kindly and lovingly and effectively, and not for my reasons but so that they may better join our body to serve your purposes. Amen.