Timid Ol' Paul

Scripture: By the humility and gentleness of Christ, I appeal to you—I, Paul, who am “timid” when face to face with you, but “bold” toward you when away! I beg you that when I come I may not have to be as bold as I expect to be toward some people who think that we live by the standards of this world. 2 Corinthians 10:1-2

Observation: There are two ways to biblically confront other believers in order to correct behavior. One is by loving them into the truth, and the other is by confronting them with the truth. Paul preferred to start with the former, and do it face to face, then resort to the latter via writing to ensure there was clear understanding. However ... he was more than ready and equipped for face to face confrontation if need be.

Application: My wife ran into this exact issue just yesterday! She has been trying to correct people with kind words and leading, however some people just aren't responding. Yesterday she learned that, the bolder and bolder she got with them face to face, the better they responded to the truth.

It seems clear Paul knew how the Corinthians were receiving him, too. He was aware that they considered him "timid" face to face, and therefore even though they had taken his written corrections to heart, they were not worried about meeting him ... surely he would just be nice ol' Paul when they met. It is this way with my wife as well: Everyone asks her opinion in writing, but face to face they expect her to just be the sweet pastor who gives them a hug. I think it scared some of them yesterday when she told them "you are behaving un-biblically and need to change your ways, thoughts, and actions now."

And I was SO proud of her!! That was hard for her - she loves people so much. But she is an amazing woman of God, a wonderful pastor, and a great leader. I couldn't be prouder of her if I tried.

Prayer: Lord, please keep your hand upon my wife. Her heart is firmly fixed on your love, and her face is always looking to you. She seeks your words and guidance in all things. Be the words in her mouth, and the conviction in her will, and the firmness in her purpose, as she watches over your flock. Amen.